As my birthday approaches tomorrow, I’ve come to appreciate the increasing significance it holds for me as I grow older compared to when I was younger.
I used to dread the passing of another year, but recently, I have found myself feeling thankful and eager for the adventures that lie ahead on this new journey.
Life becomes genuinely exhilarating when you are actively living, not just going through the motions of existence. Knowing your true self and purpose on this earth adds excitement and fulfilment to each day.
No longer living up to the expectations of others.
Who says that reaching middle age means surrendering to the idea that your life is over and giving up on your hopes and dreams?
It is often said that life begins at 40, and I can attest to the validity of this statement through my personal experiences.
In my formative years, I merely existed, not truly living. I was lost in uncertainty, unaware of my true self and devoid of purpose.
At age 15, schools often pressure students to understand their future career path clearly. I had always wanted to be a lawyer, but my ambitions shifted as I explored different paths.
I was lost and unsure of my identity, but one thing was clear—I had a deep-seated desire to comfort and bring joy to others.
I feel that my spiritual, mental, and emotional growth had been stunted, causing a delay in my physical maturation into adulthood.
I moved through life with narrow views, relying solely on the knowledge and experiences of others. I could have thought more independently rather than merely following the rules.
I never considered the concept of self-discovery as I clung to my rigid, militant approach to life.
Whoever decided that middle age equates to resigning to a mundane and uneventful existence, spending hours in front of the TV with no more adventures, hasn’t experienced the zest and vitality of embracing this stage of life.
The body changes as the years go by, but you can maintain a youthful energy by caring for your mind, body, and spirit.
When seeking a committed partner to settle down with, you possess a more comprehensive grasp of your relationship needs and desires than in your youth.
No rules say you’re too old to do most of the things you enjoyed when you were young. You can still engage in those activities and embrace your youth at any age.
As I dedicated time to myself, engaged in introspection, and reshaped my thoughts, I discovered a sense of peace in my own company. I realized that I was complete and did not need to rely on others for fulfilment.
I am open to the possibility of a future relationship, but I am not inclined to go on a frantic search simply because I am single and in my middle years.
I am addressing some of the challenges I have encountered in relationships, and my primary issue stems from my desire to find a partner who shares my values. I long for someone who respects me and takes pride in their actions.
One of the perks of being my age is that people are more set in their ways, so what you see is what you get. Determining what you are willing to tolerate is all up to you.
I have never been more thrilled about the unpredictable future than I am now, revelling in the freedom to live exactly as I choose.
I often yearned for more in my previous years, but now I embrace each day as it unfolds.
Countless years have been squandered on insignificant matters, and I am no longer determined to waste a moment on the things that once consumed me. I am committed to progressing and breaking free from the chains that once held me back.
I’ve come to terms with the relentless march of time and the importance of living in the present moment.
I’ve learned to release the need to control others’ perceptions of me and instead focus on embracing the life ahead. It’s time to let go of the past and fully embrace the future that awaits me.
In everything, there must be a balance.
Natalie M Bleau
Scripture of Balance
