“I do not ever want to become a carbon copy of anybody else as I just want to be uniquely me. I would not go as far as to class myself as special to anyone other than the people who see and value my worth.” Natalie Bleau

People will view you as they choose to and on the social media platforms there are many people who want recognition and status, we are, who we are, unless we are trying to be, who we are not.

If you want to positively stand out amongst the rest you needn’t try too hard, just relax and be who you really are and not who you think that people will like and accept.

You may try and be like somebody else to get the attention you crave but the very people who have followed your life on social media can see right through your insecurity and your façade can you really keep it up that long, without them not seeing your real personality traits.

I never really pretended to be who I was not on social media; people only will know what I want them to. I admit that in the past I have been ashamed to admit that I have struggled and almost been defeated with my mental health, but after such a journey I am happy to share my journey, not for recognition or publicity, but to support others by letting them know that they are not alone.

Years ago, I know that I would have negatively stood out as a ‘crazy person,’ ‘attention-seeker’ or just a ‘loser’ if I had even mentioned my struggles, the feedback would have been horrendous, but today I am past caring about what the cruel, selfish, and insensitive people have got to say about what they have no idea about.

When you are different you definitely will stand out as you are a unique individual and not one of those people that are been shepherded and controlled by societies latest norm. The people that look beyond the menial materialistic things in society will respect you.

Personally, I am more interested in the consistency of the person than the forever changing personality and looks of the in-crowd as they struggle to reach everyone expectations.


People may say you are ‘weird’ because you are different, but they are afraid to be themselves as they feel that people will reject them.

In everything there must be a balance, being yourself could become being the best version of yourself.

The Scripture of Balance

Natalie Bleau

1 comment
  • Diane
    November 8, 2021

    Different is good we are all unique

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